Dear B’nai Shalom members, families, and friends:
I begin this bulletin article with my heartfelt thanks to all of the wonderful shul people who reached out to me in one form or another and have conveyed warm wishes of recuperation and recovery. I am most grateful for the great people in the medical profession who have used their considerable skills to make the procedure successful and with Hashem’s help, the aftermath equally successful. Many thanks from Robin and me, directly from our hearts!
I am including the following poem for your perusal, enjoyment, and pondering – hoping that its content and substance will help all of us take time to examine our actions, thoughts, and the way we approach life and life’s decisions.
With Torah blessings to all,
Rabbi Dr. Yaacov Dvorin
“The Dash” Poem
by Linda Ellis
I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on the tombstone from the beginning to the end.
He noted first came the date of the birth and spoke the following date with tears.
But he said what mattered most of all was the dash between the years.
For that dash represents all the time that they spent life on Earth.
And now only those who loved them know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not how much we own, the cars, the house, the cash.
What matters is how we live and love, and how we spend our dash.
So, think about this long and hard. Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left that can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough to consider what’s true and real,
and always try to understand the way other people feel.
Be less quick to anger and show appreciation more,
and love the people in our lives like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy is being read with your life’s actions to rehash,
would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash?